I take each day for what it is, and move forward to the next. I try not to take for granted those I love and those I dislike. For even the ones I dislike, have something to teach. Contrary to societal conditioning I may have experienced, being accepting is not the same as being unaware or being without personal desires. I do not live by societal standards. My desires are always changing and developing. I believe that without change there is no forward movement. I try not to live by the "would of", "could of", "should of" mentality. I would like to meet someone of like mind. Sense of humor is a must. I am a single mother that is very independent. I do not engage in theatrical dramas. I do not play games, and expect the same. Life is to short to live fighting. All that said and written.... "If you don't like the answer life keep giving us than perhaps we should change the question"